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A World Without Play?

What would it be like in a world without play?

Wouldn’t it be boring, dull, dark, and gray?

What would we see when we looked around?

No shapes, patterns, nor colors would be found?

There wouldn’t be any grief or any sorrow.

There wouldn’t be any hope for tomorrow.

No hobbies, no interests, there’d be no joy.

No games or toys, for adults, girls and boys.

No curiosity or wonder, no where to wander.

There wouldn’t be anything for us to ponder.

No creativity and no imagination.

No inventions, nor great explorations.

No books to read or stories to write.

Would we even have both day and night?

In a world without play, what would happen to all of creation?

Wouldn’t we lose all of our sensation?

Wouldn’t we lose all of our emotions?

And what would happen to all of Earth’s oceans?

What would happen to all creatures, both big and small?

Wouldn’t all of nature just crumble and fall?

Would we be able to see, hear, taste, smell, and feel?

How would we know what could or could not be real?

We would have no knowing, no intuition.

No sense of belonging, no connection, or even religion.

No beliefs, philosophy, or any spirituality.

We wouldn’t even have any sexuality.

We would not be fully conscious,

Have no awareness to fully process.

What would happen inside of our brain?

Wouldn’t we all just go insane?

Howard Gardner, Mildred Parton and B.F. Skinner,

Erick and Joan Erickson, and Bronfenbrenner,

John Dewey, Vygotsky, and Jean Piaget,

What would they all have to say?

“The Father of Kindergarten,” Friedrich Froebel,

Most likely would say that we live in Hell.

Malaguzzi, Gerber, Steiner, and Montessori,

What would happen to all of their theories?

Has anyone read or listened to Dr. Peter Gray?

What would he think of a world without play?

Or what about Einstein, Freud, or Carl Jung,

Doctors Stuart Brown, Walter Drew, or Sir Kenneth Robinson?

Without any of these many theories,

Where would they, or all of us be?

Would there even be any education?

Would we have any communication?

Play isn’t measured on standardized tests,

But play is how we all learn the best.

In a world without play, there’d be no careers.

From physicians, lawyers, construction, and all engineers,

To teachers and healers, artists and musicians,

Even military, government, good and bad politicians.

We need to shout it out loud, for all to hear.

“Play is nothing that we need to fear.”

Millions have talked and wrote about play.

It’s not something that will just go away.

From doctors, professors, and scholars,

To many theorists and philosophers,

Even spiritual leaders, mystics, and seers.

There are so many play pioneers.

Our children are here to remind,

That play can be so easy to find.

Look within and let out your inner child

To find strength, calm, and your wild.

Play is structured in our DNA.

It’s innate, it’s natural, for us to play.

It’s part of our spiritual and human design.

To move, dance, love, and to explore our mind.

It is definitely time to shift the play paradigm.

Play is the revolution.

Play is part of the solution.

Play is part of our evolution.

In play, we find our purpose, passion, our role.

That is our meaning, that is our goal.

It’s not possible to have a world without play.

This is what drives us each day.

Play is for all of us, from birth to old age.

We need play in order to survive.

We need it in order to thrive.

Play is what helps us all feel alive.

Play is for learning, our health and well-being.

Play is what gives our lives full of meaning.

So, you see, play is something that we cannot resist.

Because, in a world without play we wouldn’t exist…

Early Childhood, Life, Self-Care

When We Heal Ourselves We React and Respond Better

This is something I’m sure we’re all working on. There’s always something that might trigger an emotion or feeling from past experiences, even back from our childhood, whether we realize it or not. Then sometimes we react in not so good ways.

Something that another person does, or a child might do, even an event, or certain situation might trigger something that may have happened in our past that we may not be aware of until it happens. Is it a fear? Is it from a past trauma, as little as it may be?

Our reactions can tell a lot about us. When we can do some inner child work and heal from those past experiences we’re able stop for a minute and ask ourselves some questions before reacting and responding.

I like to call this the 4 R’s: Recognize, Reflect, React & Respond. Recognize the trigger, Reflect on what may help, then React and Respond better.

*What is this person, or child, doing that is triggering this in me?

*Why is this behavior triggering me?

*What past behaviors in others may have caused this trigger?

*What about this situation, or event, is triggering this in me?

*Why is this triggering me?

*What past experience may have caused this trigger?

What other questions could you ask yourself?

When we can recognize and reflect on our reactions we heal, react, and respond better. Healing our inner child is a form of self-care.

Life

Picture This – Sometimes We Have to See and Listen More Deeply

I always seem to keep myself busy with a lot of things on a day-to-day basis. From prioritizing self-care, to working with the children at the center I’m at, to always reading & other personal & professional development, to spending time with family, etc. I was reflecting and pondering the other day on my alone time when I recalled a vision I had earlier this year. Sometimes I feel like I’m rushing to where I want to be, but this vision pulled me back.

While I was meditating one day back in February I felt like I got pulled into the ocean. It was calm and sunny out with a bright, blue sky. I’m in the middle of no where, just swimming when I see an island ahead in the distance. I keep swimming, but I see that I’m not getting any closer. I stop for a while just floating in the water, then try again. Still, the island is the same distance as before. I stop again, float some more. Then I get the message to turn around. What do I see? A mirror image of the island that I was trying to get to right in front of me. I put my feet down and I can now touch ground. I walk up to the shore line where the light waves are hitting the beach sand. I stand in wonder and awe at the beauty of my surroundings. I’m alone on this deserted island. There’s Palm trees all around, even a hammock hanging between two of them with a side table nearby. There’s a lounge chair on the other side. I sit down and look back at the ocean. I see an island across the way and wonder if that’s the same island I’m on, the mirror image. I think to myself, Is the Universe playing games with me? I relax into the chair and enjoy the quiet relaxing view. Then I get another message. U-turns are allowed, slow down, listen within yourself, you’re exactly where you meant to be, your goals aren’t leaving, you’ll get there, it’s closer than you think.

The reason I share this is because I believe that the Universe has a plan for all of us. When we know what our purpose is, sometimes we rush to get where we want to be. Life gets us that way but, sometimes, it’s also telling us that we just have to slow down, turn around and see where we’re at right now. When the Universe smacks you back a little bit, that’s where I get the term “The Mirror Effect.” Occasionally, we have to just look at ourselves, connect within, and remind ourselves this.